01Step 1: Choose where to build it
Wedding platforms such as Zola and Joy are free and include RSVPs and a guest list. General builders such as Squarespace or Wix give more design control but leave RSVPs to a form. The best wedding website builder compares the options; if you are unsure, start on a free wedding platform, since you can always point a custom domain at something else later.
02Step 2: Gather the details first
Most of the time goes into decisions, not the website. Before you pick a template, write down the facts guests will ask about. Having them in one document makes the site quick to build and keeps every page consistent.
- Ceremony and reception: date, start times, venue names and full addresses.
- Other events: welcome drinks, rehearsal dinner, brunch, and who is invited to each.
- Dress code, in plain words ("cocktail: suits and dresses, no need for black tie").
- Travel: nearest airports, hotel blocks with booking codes and deadlines, parking.
- RSVP deadline, meal choices and whether plus-ones and children are invited.
- Registry links, or a line saying you do not want gifts.
03Step 3: Build the pages
Keep the structure small. A single scrolling page works for most weddings; separate pages help when you have many events or a lot of travel information. One-page vs multi-page websites explains the trade-off.
- 1HomeYour names, the date, the city and one button: RSVP. Add a photo you both like.
- 2ScheduleEach event with time, place, dress code and a map link.
- 3Travel and stayHow to get there, where to stay, and booking deadlines.
- 4FAQThe questions people will otherwise text you; wedding website FAQ examples has wording to borrow.
- 5RSVPNames, attendance per event, meal choice and dietary needs, with the deadline.
- 6Our story (optional)Short. Guests skim it; your families read it closely.
04Step 4: Set up RSVPs properly
On wedding platforms, import your guest list first so RSVPs match real invitations. Joy, for example, says guests do not need an email address or an account to RSVP. Decide how you handle plus-ones before you import: naming them on the list prevents surprise guests.
On a general builder, use a form with required fields for name, attendance and meal choice, and send responses to a spreadsheet. Test it yourself with a fake guest before anyone else sees it.
What people who tried it say
Engineers who built their own wedding sites on Hacker News mostly say the same thing: the website was more work than expected alongside everything else, and the parts guests used were directions, schedule and RSVP.
- Show HN: Open-sourcing my wedding website on my first anniversaryHacker News
Couples with guests in several countries say the website did the work paper could not: RSVPs, directions and travel in one place. Others sent paper invitations as the formal invite and used the site only for details and RSVPs.
- Show HN: I built my wedding website using PolymerHacker News
One commenter worried about publishing the date and venue openly; another pointed out that newspapers print the same details. Others noted the site showed nothing without JavaScript and joked about what happens when a home-built server goes down the week of the wedding.
Looking for more first-hand opinions? Search Reddit for “how to make a wedding website”. We link the live threads rather than summarizing them, so you read them in full.
Our take
build it in one sitting with the facts already written down. Couples who start with templates spend hours choosing fonts and then still have to chase the venue for parking details.
Where this falls short
Customs vary: in some families and countries, guests are invited in person and a website is only for travel details. Adapt the RSVP and tone to your guests, not to the template.
Orlume can turn your details document into a designed, mobile-friendly wedding site in one prompt and publish it; add a form service for RSVPs.
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Sources
- 1.Free wedding websites · Zola
- 2.Just the FAQs · Joy
- 3.How to time your wedding website perfectly · Joy
Researched and written by the Orlume team · Updated October 2026

